Everyone. Your sexual orientation or marital status is irrelevant – relationship problems transcend such considerations. Sometimes those in a relationship – whether straight, gay or from an ethnic community – have no idea how to communicate effectively. Starting a process of counselling can often be of help; showing people how to listen is a big part of it. Therapy is both a practical and creative process and potentially a transformative one.
Call +27 64 950 7000 or email michael@kall.co.za for an initial appointment. As well as Parkhurst, Johannesburg, sessions can be arranged via video conferencing; I use Vectera to host on-line sessions. This is a confidential and secure platform.
This first consultation will be a chance to hear about your difficulties and for me to explain how therapy works. The particular relationship negotiated between a therapist and a client is always unique and I encourage a trusting alliance or partnership in therapy. The relationship between the therapist and client is at the heart of the process – having confidence in your therapist is very important and will enable you to get the best out of the counselling sessions. Our first session is an opportunity to see whether we’re a good “fit”, and also for you to decide whether I’m the right therapist for you. Not only will you be able to establish your comfort level, but you will also get to know me and my therapeutic style; at the same time you will be able to determine whether I am somebody you are able to trust to share in your journey. If I am not the right person for you, I will try to connect you to someone who might be able to offer the right kind of treatment or approach that might work best.
I offer long-term and short-term once-weekly therapy, or a fixed term of consultations. You may prefer something short-term to focus on a particular issue, or a deeper commitment through regular sessions. The initial consultations/assessments and weekly sessions last 60 minutes.
Of course. However, as the work is all about relationships, whenever possible, it’s best for both partners to attend. You may also find that your partner changes his or her mind once you’ve decided to commit to regular counselling. There are also those who need to mourn a loss in the aftermath of a broken or failed relationship – naturally, they attend counselling on their own.
Unfortunately, I won’t be able to take on patients who are looking to pay through insurance. I am not affiliated to any medical aid scheme in South Africa.
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