Couples Counsellor and Relationship Therapist

  Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble

Niemand ist ohne Probleme, solange er sich zwischen den chaotischen Strömungen des Lebens bewegt

– Carl Jung, Swiss psychologist

Freudian Knitting

My aim as a couples therapist is to assist each of you to figure out how you can do your best in your relationship.

Don’t feel bad or hopeless if you are struggling.

A disagreement over the state of the kitchen can escalate quickly.

Together, in a safe and confidential space, we can untangle and explore the difficulties you are facing.

Michael Kallenbach is a friendly, thoughtful and effective couples therapist who is passionate about what he can do to help your relationship

Michael Kallenbach Couples Counselling

Consulting rooms in Parkhurst, Johannesburg

Michael is an intelligent and thoughtful observer with a clear thinking approach – he is an astute listener and a natural admirer of the mind. He is curious to understand why people act as they do and his interventions in the consulting room are vibrant and creative. We are not always aware of the whys and wherefores of our actions, of what motivates us to feel or behave a certain way. Shedding light on your unconscious fears and desires may enable you to understand yourself better and in doing so, take greater responsibility for the changes you want to make.  

“Therapy can really work for men. Blokes are very bad at talking about their problems”

– Alex James, musician and bass player for Blur

Michael offers brief and long-term work to couples and individuals, helping them work through a wide range of emotional and behavioural difficulties. He has a very real conviction in the usefulness and value of psychotherapy.

During counselling he will bring clarity and sensitivity to the room. This will allow you to hear your story and come to your own conclusions.

We all begin our relationships with love, excitement, and the hope that we’ll have a great life together. But we often don’t anticipate or imagine how difficult it is to be a creative couple.

In therapy, it’s important to create a safe space for authentic and open discussion, encouraging self-reflection and facilitating change.

MIchael Kallenbach sitting in the counselling room

I immediately felt at ease with you; our work has brought clarity and progress. Thank you for your commitment to us and especially to our relationship. Knowing you were there for us, week after week, really helped. You showed such forthrightness and compassion.

– A former couple client


Michael Kallenbach Couples Counselling Book Shelf

Michael works across the heterosexual and LGBT spectrum, however emotionally rich or challenging the material might be. He is passionate about helping couples and individuals, and does so in an affirmative, therapeutic way; he believes that when people are listened to with respect, problems and conflicts can be explored in a non-judgmental environment.

Michael has a wide range of relevant experience. He completed a robust and in-depth training, longer than the majority of others, qualifying at the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships in London (now Tavistock Relationships), the world’s leading organisation for couple psychoanalytic psychotherapy. Prior to returning to Johannesburg, he had consulting rooms in Harley Street, London and Marlborough, Wiltshire.

Latest Posts
Read Michael’s Blog
Articles on managing relationships for couples and individuals

Saturday Star, Johannesburg – January 15th, 2022

“I think this year people are somehow more desperate for help than they were last year and it’s...

From the December 2021 issue of YOU Magazine

From the December 2021 issue of YOU magazine. Michael was quoted extensively in the article...

I Got My Covid-19 vaccination plus booster

In February 2021, I was administered the J and J vaccine as part of the Sisonke project.  This...

The four things South Africans are obsessed with

It was a little over two years ago that I returned to live in Johannesburg after spending most of...

Getting vaccinated: A therapists account

Early last month (FEB) I registered with the Department of Health on their EVDS portal in advance...

Covid puts relationships in a pressure cooker. Here’s how to relieve the stress

We create our conflicts - and we can resolve them tooLife is like a pressure cooker, but there are...

How to survive in January

“Everyone seems to know someone who is either ill at the moment, recovering from Covid-19 or has...

Counselling in the time of Covid

“I’ve been consulting virtually for awhile now, even prior to lockdown, and use an online platform...

Couples refuse to listen until it’s too late

I was most interested to read Howard Feldman’s insightful thoughts after the passing of his father...

Why the Covid-19 pandemic has made people look and feel older

“The Covid-19 pandemic has affected everyone – young or old, wherever they live in the world,”...
× Do get in touch...